The 9 Body Types

The Mediator
What are others’ positions and external claims?
I believe ‘I am peaceful and accommodating’ so i can avoid feeling discomfort, conflict and being dismissed.
The Perfectionist
What is right/wrong and correct/incorrect?
I believe “I am correct and good” so i can avoid feeling bad or wrong.
The Protector
Where is the power in this situation?
I believe “I am strong, fair and just” so i can avoid feeling vulnerable, weak and powerless.
The Epicure
What are the stimulating possibilities and multiple options?
I believe “I am okay” so i can avoid feeling pain and limitations
The Giver
What are the needs of significant people?
I believe “I am helpful and giving” so i can avoid feeling unappreciated and rejected.
The Loyal Skeptic
What can go wrong? whom can i trust? What are the unspoken messages?
I believe “I am loyal” so i can avoid feeling vulnerable and helpless.
The Performer
What tasks need to be done so i can achieve my goals?
“I believe i am successful” so i can avoid feeling incompetent and losing face.
The observer
Will there be demands on my time, energy and resources?
I believe “I am knowledgeable and calm” so i can avoid feeling inadequate and depleted.
Individualist
What is missing in me and this relationship? Will i be be seen and understood
I believe “I am unique and special” so i can avoid feeling deficient and dispensable